Many men are intimidated by strong, successful women because males
still think they need to be the head of the household. A lot of men feel
a sense of competition with women who are in the workforce, even if
they’re in different fields, working in different offices, doing
different job duties. This can cause a rift in relationships, because
relationships should be nurturing, and both partners should encourage
each other in all aspects of life. So guys, instead of being intimidated
by successful women, check out these reasons why dating a successful
woman is important to your success.
1. She is independent.
Women who have their own career to focus on are independent in all
aspects of their lives. They understand when you need to work overtime
or, conversely, when you need time to yourself, or time with the guys.
Successful women aren’t dependent on you, they don’t always need you
around to entertain them or validate them. They have their own careers,
their own money, their own friends, and they can manage it all on their
own. This makes things even better when you come back together and have
that much more to talk about and share.
2. She can help you make strides in life.
Successful women are eager to move their own lives and careers
forward, and they will do the same for you. They’re intent on doing the
best the can in every aspect, and they’ll want that same thing for their
partner. Smart women can help you brainstorm for work projects and keep
you on deadlines. They’ll encourage you in your career because they
want an equal partner, but this also transfers to home life. Because
both of you are successful, driven, employed adults, you’ll need to
split home chores evenly, so she will be able to help you out in that
realm as well.
3. She can impress your boss.
The stereotypical dream for guys is to have a wife who doubles as arm
candy when you go out. This might impress superficial people, but
imagine taking a gorgeous, shallow woman to a work event and introducing
her to your boss. He asks her what she does and she can barely form a
sentence. She can’t talk about current events over dinner. What if you
could have a smart, successful woman, still attractive, of course! (Talk about stereotypes – smart women can and are still beautiful! You don’t have to sacrifice beauty for brains.)
Not only is she arm candy, but she’ll impress your boss with her
knowledge and personal success, and she’ll be able to talk to your boss’
spouse and help forge a more personal relationship, which will only
make you look more appealing and interesting to your boss and coworkers.
4. You will have more money as a couple.
What’s not to love about dual incomes? A successful woman cares about
her job and makes sure she’s getting paid what she’s worth, and will
more than likely request raises when she feels it’s time. This means you
don’t have to worry about supporting the entire household by yourself.
You’ll be able to live on one check for a month, and the other income
can be for fun, travel, dinners out, and more! Conversely, you can save
more and build a dream house or retire early and see the world.
5. She will appreciate the small things.
Successful women often have to deal with a lot of crap at work. They
have a lot of responsibility and work really hard at their duties, so
they might be more stressed when they’re home. This means they’ll
appreciate the small things you do that much more. Imagine how relieved
she’d feel when she comes home and sees dinner on the table, or when you
offer to do the dishes before bed! Instead of expecting you to give her
the world, a successful woman knows she can provide all of that stuff
for herself – so the little things are going to stand out so much more.
Be considerate and think of what you can do to make her life a little
easier, and you’ll reap the rewards in terms of her love and happiness.
6. She will help your ego.
Who doesn’t like to brag about their partner! Instead of floundering
when someone asks what your other half does, you’ll be able to brag
about her job position and how many sales she made last month, or how
she’s started changing the company – or started her own company! Instead
of having to say your wife spent the day getting a manicure or cleaning
up the kids’ rooms, you get to say that your partner accomplished
something major at work or closed a big deal. Your partner’s
accomplishments will make you look and feel even better because you’re
paired with such an amazing person.
7. She will be successful in many different ways.
A woman doesn’t have to just be successful in her career. If she
works hard in the office, you can rest assured that she will work that
hard at home, too. She’ll be a great wife because she’ll tackle home
chores just as she does work duties. She’ll be a great mother because
she’ll raise the children to be successful, just like the two of you
are. She’ll be great at managing a social life on top of everything
because that’s who she is! She’s successful and driven and worth it!
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